I'm X. I'm genderqueer, and a sexual assault survivor. I'm trying to recover. Ex-self harmer Self diagnosed with PTSD, Depression, and anxiety. I've been trying to figure out for a long time if it was okay to self diagnose, and I've come to the conclusion that it is. I would really like to see someone for it, but that's just not an option right now. This is my personal recovery blog. Sensitive questions are welcome. Support is much appreciated. (I'm not actively self-harming but just in case) Please don't send me an ask telling me not to hurt myself, take a look at this.



Lawyer has agreed to take my case!

But nothing is set in stone. 

Contacting one more guy who is supposed to be good.

What is your goal for suing pace?
Like, pain and suffering money, policy change, public apology?


when can androgyny stop being portrayed as such a specific style

like ok. apparently you have to be skinny, thin, white, and masculine to be considered by society as non binary or androgynous???


androgyny is so fucking fat phobic and racist and anti feminine and that needs to be dismantled nOW


Anonymous asked
You know you're a survivor when you feel your abuser's touch as you sleep only to wake up and realize that you are completely alone. Half of you is relieved because it's not happening again, the other half is upset and confused wondering when you will forget his touch.



I should not have to disclose anything about my trauma for my sexual boundaries to be deemed acceptable. Nobody’s sexual boundaries should be pushed or put up for debate regardless of circumstance.

#i can’t believe people think it’s okay to demand details about peoples lives in order to determine whether their sexual boundaries are valid or not



i dont have a moral problem with consuming animals or animal products but i do have a problem with the way that animals are raised and prepared for mass consumption in modern society 

same, i wish i had more of a choice wrt the meat i consume, as is i wait anxiously for someone to throw me some deer every hunting season and the rest of the time feel sad at my chicken and pork


I wanna get that “Worlds Best Misandrist” mug and when men get all pissy at me I’ll be like. I’m so sorry let me get another mug. And just pour my coffee in to the “male tears” mug and stare at them. 



do not support your friends who turn out to be rapists.
do not doubt your friends who have been raped.

unfriend the rapists.
protect the abused.

please, please.



When I start to get emotional I immediately think “I’m so gay” and this is because straight people actually don’t have emotions

this is false and heterophobic. straight people have a panorama of emotions including:

  • outrage
  • jealousy
  • Situational Benevolence (aka “don’t fight hate w/ hate”)
  • sports
  • umami, the “Fifth Emotion”
  • TGIF


Suddenly you’re 21 and you’re screaming along in your car to all the songs you used to listen to when you were sad in middle school and everything is different but everything is good


"hey that’s a cute dress"


"oh that’s cool but i really like the lace on the collar"




literally anyone who wears clothes made for women will freak out when there are decently sized pockets built in it’s like finding a unicorn