I'm X. I'm genderqueer, and a sexual assault survivor. I'm trying to recover. Ex-self harmer Self diagnosed with PTSD, Depression, and anxiety. I've been trying to figure out for a long time if it was okay to self diagnose, and I've come to the conclusion that it is. I would really like to see someone for it, but that's just not an option right now. This is my personal recovery blog. Sensitive questions are welcome. Support is much appreciated. (I'm not actively self-harming but just in case) Please don't send me an ask telling me not to hurt myself, take a look at this.




do not support your friends who turn out to be rapists.
do not doubt your friends who have been raped.

unfriend the rapists.
protect the abused.

please, please.



When I start to get emotional I immediately think “I’m so gay” and this is because straight people actually don’t have emotions

this is false and heterophobic. straight people have a panorama of emotions including:

  • outrage
  • jealousy
  • Situational Benevolence (aka “don’t fight hate w/ hate”)
  • sports
  • umami, the “Fifth Emotion”
  • TGIF


Suddenly you’re 21 and you’re screaming along in your car to all the songs you used to listen to when you were sad in middle school and everything is different but everything is good


"hey that’s a cute dress"


"oh that’s cool but i really like the lace on the collar"




literally anyone who wears clothes made for women will freak out when there are decently sized pockets built in it’s like finding a unicorn

California passes 'yes-means-yes' campus sexual assault bill


it’s pretty common for people discussing rape culture within feminist discourse to conveniently leave out disabled girls, but this is just a casual reminder that disabled women are far more likely to be sexually assaulted, abused or raped than able-bodied women. on top of that, 50% of deaf girls and 54% of deaf boys have been sexually abused or assaulted. so please stop leaving us out of your discussion about rape culture.

book one: professor mcgonagall and the you put a WHAT in our WHERE albus

book two: professor mcgonagall and the we have a WHAT IN OUR WHERE ALBUS

book three: professor mcgonagall and the ministry is sending us WHAT because of WHO

book four: professor mcgonagall and the ARE YOU SHITTING ME ALBUS

book five: professor mcgonagall and the we have WHO telling us to do WHAT

book six: professor mcgonagall and the albus do something NO NOT THAT

book seven: professor mcgonagall and the I FINALLY GET TO BLOW SHIT UP THANK YOU WIZARD GOD

me, about to get mauled to death by a wolf: puppy! who's a handsome puppy

Anonymous asked
One of the saddest and most hil- NO BITCH, the sad thing here is the fact that you're a stripper. If you want respect, maybe you should've graduated high school. 😂😂 when did stripping become a legitimate career?




Awww, you tried so hard, but unfortunately I can’t hear you over the sound of my debt-free college degree and massive disposable income.


Oh snap

omfg i’ve never been more in love with a response



Other people: “What’s it like being gender fluid?”

Me: “It’s uh, well… kinda like, um…”